Be kind Quote by Charles Bukowski
“I lapsed into my pathetic cut-off period. Often with humans, both good and bad, my senses simply shut off, they get tired, I give up. I am polite. I nod. I pretend to understand because I don’t want anybody to be hurt. That is the one weakness that has lead me into the most trouble. Trying to be kind to others I often get my soul shredded into a kind of spiritual pasta. No matter. My brain shuts off. I listen. I respond. And they are too dumb to know that I am not there.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Post Office by Charles Bukowski, 1971
The speaker describes emotional numbness and the cost of feigning politeness, leading to inner depletion.
In simple terms: Pretending to care drains the soul.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and honor your true feelings.
Themes
emotional exhaustion
authenticity
social interaction
Mood
tired
reflective
Type
advice
personal
When to use this quote
- workplace
- personal relationships
- social gatherings
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
psychological fatigue
self‑preservation
emotional labor
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you protect your emotional health while being kind?
- What boundaries can you set to avoid feeling empty?
A Different Perspective
Sustaining false kindness can cause lasting psychological harm.
