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Burial Quote by Cathy Linh Che

“Burial Cathy Linh Che There is the rain, the odor of fresh earth, and you, grandmother, in a box. I bury the distance, 22 years of not meeting you and your ruined hands. I bury your hair, parted to the side and pinned back, your áo dài of crushed velvet, the implements you used to farm, the stroke…” quote by Cathy Linh Che
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““Burial Cathy Linh Che There is the rain, the odor of fresh earth, and you, grandmother, in a box. I bury the distance, 22 years of not meeting you and your ruined hands. I bury your hair, parted to the side and pinned back, your áo dài of crushed velvet, the implements you used to farm, the stroke which claimed your right side, the land you gave up when you remarried, your grief over my grandfather's passing, the war that evaporated your father's leg, the war that crushed your bowls, your childhood home razed by the rutted wheels of an American tank— I bury it all. You learned that nothing stays in this life, not your daughter, not your uncle, not even the dignity of leaving this world with your pants on. The bed sores on your hips were clean and sunken in. What did I know, child who heard you speak only once, and when we met for the first time, tears watered the side of your face. I held your hand and said, bà ngoai, bà ngoai Ten years later, I returned. It rained on your gravesite. In the picture above your tomb, you looked just like my mother. We lit the joss sticks and planted them. We kept the encroaching grass at bay.””

Cathy Linh Che

About This Quote

The poem mourns loss, war, and generational trauma, burying memories while acknowledging impermanence.

In simple terms: Grief and memory intertwine, yet life moves on.

Key Takeaway

Honor past while embracing change.

Themes

grief memory war family

Mood

somber reflective

Type

poetic historical

When to use this quote

  • memorial services
  • family reunions
  • healing rituals
  • historical reflection

Key Concepts

history trauma cultural heritage

Questions to Reflect On

  • What memories do you carry?
  • How do you find peace after loss?
A Different Perspective

Healing may be slow and incomplete.

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