“They always told me, 'don't blame me for his mistakes' If the roles where switched, I would expect the same. One thing I failed to realize is that men play a different game. They claim we're on the same page just so eventually they can push us away, and at the same time they know we will care cause they told us everything we wanted to hear. Women often are desperate vulnerable human beings and almost every man will use it to their advantage. I was told 'don't punish me for his mistakes'. My heart felt safe. Over time it became the most popular line. I failed to realize. I was told that the biggest mistake I could make was treating him like the others, so I stopped fearing the consequence and let everyone in. Turns out that the biggest mistake was listening to the men who all had similar intentions.”