Giving Quote by Cassandra Clare
“You have to give everyone ugly motives for everything they do, because ugly motives are all you understand.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Mortal Instruments series, 2007
People often assume others act out of selfish reasons because they only recognize motives they can relate to.
In simple terms: We see others' actions as selfish.
Key Takeaway
Question your assumptions about others' motives.
Themes
perception
motivation
empathy
Mood
skeptical
reflective
Type
analytical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
- team dynamics
- leadership
- community building
Key Concepts
psychology
social cognition
Questions to Reflect On
- What evidence supports your view of others' motives?
- How might you see hidden good intentions?
A Different Perspective
Not all motives are ugly; some are altruistic or complex.
