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Shame Quote by Carolyn Forche

“In the night I come to you and it seems a shame to waste my deepest shudders on a wall of a man.” quote by Carolyn Forche
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““In the night I come to you and it seems a shame to waste my deepest shudders on a wall of a man.””

Carolyn Forche

About This Quote

Source Poem: The Colonel, Carolyn Forché, 1970

Intimacy can feel wasteful when deep emotions are directed toward an unresponsive or indifferent person.

In simple terms: Deep feelings wasted on someone indifferent.

Key Takeaway

Choose where to invest emotional energy.

Themes

love communication disappointment

Mood

melancholic thoughtful

Type

poetic emotive

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • artistic expression
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

emotional labor unrequited affection

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is this emotional investment healthy?
  • How can you redirect intensity?
A Different Perspective

May romanticize unreciprocated feelings.

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