Parenting Quote by C.S. Lewis
““Bring fully into the consciousness of your patient that particular lift of his mother’s eyebrows which he learned to dislike in the nursery, and let him think how much he dislikes it.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Screwtape Letters, C.S. Lewis, 1942
Manipulating a patient’s perception of a trivial flaw can deepen self‑hatred and control.
In simple terms: Focus on minor flaws to control others.
Key Takeaway
Beware of being used to amplify insecurities.
Themes
psychology
manipulation
self‑esteem
control
therapy
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- counseling
- personal growth
- relationship dynamics
- spiritual guidance
Key Concepts
Cognitive distortion
emotional abuse
mind games
Questions to Reflect On
- What small habit do you let define you?
- How can you reframe perceived flaws positively?
A Different Perspective
Not all focus on flaws is harmful; sometimes it builds self‑awareness.
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