Comfort Quote by Blanche Wiesen Cook
![“Her [Eleanor Roosevelt] father was the love of her life. Her father always made her feel wanted, made her feel loved, where her mother made her feel, you know, unloved, judged harshly, never up to par. And she was her father's favorite, and her mother's unfavorite. So her father was the man that…” quote by Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/8aa/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_comfort_her-eleanor-roosevelt-father-was-the-lov_1830090.jpg)
“Her [Eleanor Roosevelt] father was the love of her life. Her father always made her feel wanted, made her feel loved, where her mother made her feel, you know, unloved, judged harshly, never up to par. And she was her father's favorite, and her mother's unfavorite. So her father was the man that she went to for comfort in her imaginings.”
About This Quote
Source Memoir: Blanche Wiesen Cook, 1990s interview
A daughter's deep bond with her father provided emotional support, contrasting with a strained mother relationship.
In simple terms: Father's love offered comfort amid maternal neglect.
Key Takeaway
Seek supportive relationships and address family dynamics.
Themes
family
love
psychology
identity
Mood
introspective
empathetic
Type
personal
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapeutic counseling
- family mediation
- personal reflection
- writing
- teaching
Key Concepts
attachment
parental influence
emotional support
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance parental influences?
- What coping strategies help when feeling judged?
A Different Perspective
Overreliance on one parent can hinder balanced emotional growth.
![“And she [Eleanor Roosevelt]loves being a star. And she loves being a teacher and a leader and a mentor and a big friend. Also, she's tall. She's one of the tallest girls in the school. And she's an athlete. And she writes many years later, at the end of her life, she writes that the happiest day…” quote by Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/d59/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_athlete_and-she-eleanor-roosevelt-loves-being-a_1156436.jpg)
![“But it's also the beginning of another level of liberation for her]Eleanor Roosevelt], because when she returns to New York, she gets very involved in a new level of politics. She meets Esther Lape and Elizabeth Read, and becomes very involved in the women's movement, and then in the peace…” quote by Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/b22/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_despair_but-it-s-also-the-beginning-of-another-l_701343.jpg)
![“And her [Eleanor Roosevelt] Grandmother Hall provided her really with a quite wonderful education, and a freedom that, within the framework of Tivoli (which is a framework of discipline and order) is also a very encouraging and loving one.” quote by Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/307/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_discipline_and-her-eleanor-roosevelt-grandmother-ha_759497.jpg)
