Arguing Quote by Ben Thompson
“I always make it a rule to let the other fellow fire first. If a man wants to fight, I argue the question with him and try to show him how foolish it would be. If he can't be dissuaded, why then the fun begins but I always let him have first crack. Then when I fire, you see, I have the verdict of self-defence on my side. I know that he is pretty certain in his hurry, to miss. I never do.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Self‑Defense Philosophy, 2019
Allowing an opponent to act first clarifies intent and justifies defensive response.
In simple terms: Let the aggressor act first.
Use measured response to conflict.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- debates
- physical confrontations
- legal disputes
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to let others act first?
- How do you ensure your response remains defensive?
Risk of escalation if not controlled.