Shame Quote by Audre Lorde
““The cockroach who is dying and the woman who is blind agree not to notice each other’s shame.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Transformation of Silence into Language and Action,” 1977
Shared suffering can create silent agreements to ignore each other's pain, perpetuating isolation.
In simple terms: People may ignore each other's shame.
Acknowledge shared pain.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- support groups
- activist circles
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What shame do you overlook?
- How can you break the silence?
Denial can prevent healing.