Children Quote by Arbinger Institute
““In the way we regard our children, our spouses, neighbors, colleagues, and strangers, we choose to see others either as people like ourselves or as objects.They either count like we do or they don't. In the former case we regard them as we regard ourselves, we say our hearts are at peace toward them. In the latter case, since we systematically view them as inferior, we say our hearts are at war.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Way of Being Human by Arbinger Institute, 2000
We either see others as fellow humans deserving respect or as objects, shaping our inner peace or conflict.
In simple terms: Seeing people as equals brings peace; seeing them as objects creates war.
Key Takeaway
Choose empathy over judgment.
Themes
empathy
human dignity
conflict
inner peace
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- family interactions
- workplace dynamics
- community building
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology
ethics
social perception
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you decide who is an object or a person?
- What changes when you view others as equals?
A Different Perspective
Seeing everyone as an object can limit growth and foster division.
