Accustomed Quote by Anthony Trollope
“Such young men are often awkward, ungainly, and not yet formed in their gait; they straggle with their limbs, and are shy; words do not come to them with ease, when words are required, among any but their accustomed associates. Social meetings are periods of penance to them, and any appearance in public will unnerve them. They go much about alone, and blush when women speak to them. In truth, they are not as yet men, whatever the number may be of their years; and, as they are no longer boys, the world has found for them the ungraceful name of hobbledehoy.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Way We Live Now, Anthony Trollope, 1875
Young men who are socially inexperienced feel awkward and shy, especially around unfamiliar people, making public interactions stressful.
In simple terms: Awkward youths struggle socially.
Key Takeaway
Practice social skills gradually.
Themes
social anxiety
adolescence
self‑esteem
growth
Mood
anxious
hopeful
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- school gatherings
- first dates
- team meetings
- public speaking
- networking events
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
social skill acquisition
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you create low‑pressure social settings?
- What small steps can reduce nervousness?
A Different Perspective
Confidence builds over time, not instantly.
