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Afraid of being hurt Quote by Anthony de Mello

“As you identify less and less with the “me”, you will be more at ease with everybody and with everything. Do you know why? Because you are no longer afraid of being hurt or not liked. You no longer desire to impress anyone. Can you imagine the relief when you don't have to impress anybody anymore?…” quote by Anthony de Mello
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“As you identify less and less with the “me”, you will be more at ease with everybody and with everything. Do you know why? Because you are no longer afraid of being hurt or not liked. You no longer desire to impress anyone. Can you imagine the relief when you don't have to impress anybody anymore? Oh, what a relief. Happiness at last!”

Anthony de Mello

About This Quote

Source Book: The Way to Love, Anthony de Mello, 1995

Letting go of self‑image reduces fear of judgment, leading to inner peace and universal acceptance.

In simple terms: Release ego, feel calm.

Key Takeaway

Embrace humility, stop seeking approval.

Themes

self‑awareness acceptance inner peace humility relief

Mood

peaceful reflective

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal growth
  • relationships
  • stress reduction
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

ego dissolution psychological freedom compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • What parts of your identity cause you most fear?
  • How could you practice non‑attachment daily?
A Different Perspective

May be hard to sustain when social pressures persist.

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