Change Quote by Anthony de Mello
“You only change what you understand. What you do not understand and are not aware of, you repress. You dont change. But when you understand it, it changes.”
About This Quote
The quote states that genuine change only occurs through understanding. Unconscious or unacknowledged aspects of ourselves are repressed and remain unchanged. Once we truly understand something, transformation happens naturally.
In simple terms: Understanding leads to change; repression prevents it.
Seek understanding to enable real change.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- personal development
- habit change
- learning new skills
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of yourself are you not fully aware of?
- How can you deepen your understanding of a problem area?
Understanding alone may not be enough; sometimes action or external support is needed to change ingrained patterns.