Able Quote by Anonymous
“You love someone, you open yourself up to suffering, that’s the sad truth. Maybe they’ll break your heart, maybe you’ll break their heart and never be able to look at yourself in the same way. Those are the risks. You see two people and you think they belong together, but nothing happens. The thought of losing so much control over personal happiness is unbearable. That’s the burden. Like wings, they have weight, we feel that weight on our backs, but they are a burden that lifts us. Burdens that allow us to fly.”
About This Quote
Opening up to love carries inevitable risk of pain; the burden of love can both weigh us down and lift us like wings.
In simple terms: Love brings risk and growth.
Accept vulnerability as part of love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Romantic relationships
- friendships
- personal development
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What risks are you willing to take for love?
- How can you transform love's weight into strength?
The metaphor of burden may overlook the joy of love.