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“Charles had once remarked that holding onto a resentment was like eating rat poison and waiting for the rat to die.” quote by Anne Lamott
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“Charles had once remarked that holding onto a resentment was like eating rat poison and waiting for the rat to die.”

Anne Lamott

About This Quote

Source Book: “Traveling Mercies” by Anne Lamott, 1999

Holding resentment is self‑destructive, like ingesting poison while hoping the victim dies, harming only the holder.

In simple terms: Resentment harms the holder.

Key Takeaway

Release grudges for personal health.

Themes

resentment self‑destruction forgiveness psychology well‑being

Mood

sad introspective

Type

therapeutic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

toxic emotions self‑harm emotional health

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would you need to forgive?
  • How does resentment affect your body?
A Different Perspective

Letting go can be difficult and may feel like betrayal.

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