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Apology Quote by Andy Andrews

“If one makes a mistake, then an apology is usually sufficient to get things back on an even keel. However-and this is a big ‘however’- most people do not ever know why their apology did not seem to have any effect. It is simply that they did not make a mistake; they made a choice…and never…” quote by Andy Andrews
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“If one makes a mistake, then an apology is usually sufficient to get things back on an even keel. However-and this is a big ‘however’- most people do not ever know why their apology did not seem to have any effect. It is simply that they did not make a mistake; they made a choice…and never understood the difference between the two.”

Andy Andrews

About This Quote

Apologies work only when they address a genuine error; if the issue stems from a deliberate choice, an apology alone cannot repair trust.

In simple terms: Apology fixes mistakes, not choices.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge the choice, not just the mistake.

Themes

responsibility communication trust

Mood

reflective serious

Type

advisory ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace conflicts
  • customer service
  • leadership decisions

Key Concepts

ethical accountability psychology of forgiveness

Questions to Reflect On

  • Did you truly err or merely choose?
  • How can you demonstrate change beyond words?
A Different Perspective

If the underlying issue is a choice, an apology may be seen as insincere.

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