Andre-aciman Quote by André Aciman
““Two words from him, and I had seen my pouting apathy change into I’ll play anything for you till you ask me to stop, till it’s time for lunch, till the skin on my fingers wears off layer after layer, because I like doing things for you, will do anything for you, just say the word, I liked you from day one, and even when you'll return ice for my renewed offers of friendship, I'll never forget that this conversation occurred between us and that there are easy ways to bring back summer in a snowstorm. What I forgot to earmark in that promise was that ice and apathy have ways of instantly repealing all truces and resolutions signed in sunnier moments.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Call Me by Your Name, 2007
Intense promises made in passion can be broken by apathy and circumstances.
In simple terms: Passionate vows may dissolve under neglect.
Key Takeaway
Beware of overcommitting in intense moments.
Themes
love
commitment
disillusionment
Mood
melancholic
thoughtful
Type
literary
reflective
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendship negotiations
- personal boundaries
Key Concepts
psychology
relationship dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you balance passion with realistic expectations?
- How do you protect yourself from future disappointment?
A Different Perspective
Emotions can shift quickly, making promises fragile.
