Andre-aciman Quote by André Aciman
““Intelligent? He was more than intelligent. What you two had had everything and nothing to do with intelligence. He was good, and you were both lucky to have found each other, because you too are good.' My father had never spoken of goodness this way before. It disarmed me. 'I think he was better than me, Papa.' 'I'm sure he'd say the same about you, which flatters the two of you.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Call Me by Your Name, André Aciman, 2007
The narrator reflects on a profound, almost ineffable goodness in a loved one, feeling humbled and inspired by that purity, which reshapes his self‑perception.
In simple terms: Seeing goodness in another can change how we view ourselves.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and learn from the goodness of others.
Themes
love
humility
self‑growth
reflection
beauty
Mood
contemplative
nostalgic
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendship
- mentor‑mentee bonds
- family ties
Key Concepts
existentialism
interpersonal dynamics
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities do you admire in others?
- How does another’s goodness affect your self‑image?
A Different Perspective
Such idealization may overlook flaws, leading to unrealistic expectations.
