Andre-aciman Quote by André Aciman
““Maybe it was the alcohol, maybe it was the truth, maybe I didn't want things to turn abstract, but I felt I should say it, because this was the moment to say it, because it suddenly dawned on me that this was why I had come, to tell him 'You are the only person I'd like to say goodbye to when I die, because only then will this thing I call my life make any sense. And if I should hear that you died, my life as I know it, the me who is speaking with you now, will cease to exist. Sometimes I have this awful picture of waking up in our house in B. and, looking out to the sea, hearing the news from the waves themselves, He died last night . We missed out on so much. It was a coma. Tomorrow I go back to my coma, and you to yours. Pardon, I didn't mean to offend—I am sure yours is no coma.' 'No, a parallel life.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Call Me by Your Name, André Aciman, 2007
The speaker confronts mortality, love, and the desire for meaningful connection before death, expressing that life feels purposeful only when shared with a beloved person.
In simple terms: Life feels meaningful when shared with someone you love.
Key Takeaway
Cherish deep connections now.
Themes
love
mortality
meaning
connection
grief
Mood
melancholic
reflective
intimate
Type
literary
philosophical
emotional
When to use this quote
- terminal illness
- farewell conversations
- grief counseling
- personal reflection
- writing a eulogy
Key Concepts
existentialism
romantic longing
identity
acceptance
Questions to Reflect On
- What does it mean to live fully with someone?
- How do we balance love and fear of loss?
A Different Perspective
The intensity of emotion may idealize the moment, overlooking everyday realities.
