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“When you are wondering whether to say something negative about someone - even if it is true - the best rule to follow is, "I'll think about doing this tomorrow."” quote by Amy Dickinson
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“When you are wondering whether to say something negative about someone - even if it is true - the best rule to follow is, "I'll think about doing this tomorrow."”

Amy Dickinson

About This Quote

Source Column: "Ask Amy", 2018

Delaying negative feedback gives time for reflection, reducing harm.

In simple terms: Think before you speak harshly.

Key Takeaway

Pause and consider impact before criticism.

Themes

communication ethics selfcontrol

Mood

practical cautious

Type

advice self-help

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • family
  • social media

Key Concepts

psychology conflict management

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is it better to speak immediately?
  • How can you phrase criticism constructively?
A Different Perspective

Delay may lead to avoidance of needed honesty.

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