Being alone is almost always preferable to being with the wrong person. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Do not make your current partner pay for the crimes and misdemeanors of your previous partners. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Life is both short and complicated. People sometimes make baffling choices. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You cannot beat the clock. My advice is to grab your moments of grace and enjoy them while they last. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
I think that, on some level, everybody lives vicariously through couples who are getting married. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You should do what you want, but I think you should also consider wanting something different. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
If nothing changes, you will have to put your disappointment in perspective. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You must give and receive love only when doing so doesn't hurt others. That's the ethical path, and you should gain strength… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Almost any group of three is going to form a triangle, with two points closer to one another. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One downside of being an optimist is that optimistic people tend to forget yesterday's trauma in the belief that everything will turn… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Sometimes toxic people are so resistant to change that therapy does not really help them - but they send everybody else into… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
This is a tough situation. But it is what it is, and time has an amazing way of knitting together solutions as… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
In life, you don't get instant satisfaction. In life, you get to slog. You work. You grow. You take the long view.… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
In the name of friendship you should make sure your door is always open to listen. Don't feel you need to provide… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Being inclusive sometimes means being kind toward people whose views are repugnant. But you should only do so if it is physically… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Couples who have been together for a long time say the key to staying together is to work as a team toward… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
If you turn the heat down on the relationship, she will soften, the tension will lessen, and she will eventually inch closer… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One person gets to decide if something is a problem in a relationship. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
If you miss one moment of enjoying your own life and relationships because you're trying to punish someone else, the bad guy… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You cannot tie your fiance to the railroad track of self-reflection and personal improvement. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One of the privileges of adulthood is that your parents don't get to tell you what to do. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Mature people must find their own ways to cope with their own temptations. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Sometimes the way through someone's tough outer shell is to do something obvious, thoughtful and sweet. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
If you turn the heat down on the relationship, she will soften, the tension will lessen, and she will eventually inch closer to you.… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You must give and receive love only when doing so doesn't hurt others. That's the ethical path, and you should gain strength from walking… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
If you feel guilty about not "playing nice," then you could easily alleviate your guilt by playing nice. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
When you are wondering whether to say something negative about someone - even if it is true - the best rule to follow is,… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Groveling for connection from someone who compares you to Hitler is not good for a person's self-esteem. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Friendships can survive after massive disappointment, but only if both parties are honest with one another. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Bullies often act out by marshaling aggression to cover up for insecurity. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image