Abide Quote by Amy Dickinson
““We abide. To abide means to stand with someone, to suffer alongside someone. But it also means to live somewhere, and for me, abiding meant to live in that tender and tenuous place of knowing but not knowing. Knowing what would happen but not how it would happen. Knowing it would all end, but not what that ending would be like or how it would feel.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New York Times, Amy Dickinson, 2015
Abiding means sharing suffering and uncertainty, living in a space of known outcomes but unknown processes and endings.
In simple terms: Living together in shared uncertainty.
Embrace shared vulnerability.
Themes
Mood
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When to use this quote
- support groups
- team projects
- family caregiving
- spiritual practice
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you support others while maintaining autonomy?
- What boundaries protect you in shared suffering?
Reliance on others can create dependency, limiting personal agency.