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Abide Quote by Amy Dickinson

“We abide. To abide means to stand with someone, to suffer alongside someone. But it also means to live somewhere, and for me, abiding meant to live in that tender and tenuous place of knowing but not knowing. Knowing what would happen but not how it would happen. Knowing it would all end, but not…” quote by Amy Dickinson
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““We abide. To abide means to stand with someone, to suffer alongside someone. But it also means to live somewhere, and for me, abiding meant to live in that tender and tenuous place of knowing but not knowing. Knowing what would happen but not how it would happen. Knowing it would all end, but not what that ending would be like or how it would feel.””

Amy Dickinson

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New York Times, Amy Dickinson, 2015

Abiding means sharing suffering and uncertainty, living in a space of known outcomes but unknown processes and endings.

In simple terms: Living together in shared uncertainty.

Key Takeaway

Embrace shared vulnerability.

Themes

compassion uncertainty shared experience existence

Mood

empathetic thoughtful

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • support groups
  • team projects
  • family caregiving
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

existentialism empathy acceptance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you support others while maintaining autonomy?
  • What boundaries protect you in shared suffering?
A Different Perspective

Reliance on others can create dependency, limiting personal agency.

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