Approval Quote by Amy Chua
“Westerners often laud their children as 'talented' or 'gifted', while Asian parents highlight the importance of hard work. And in fact, research performed by Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck has found that the way parents offer approval affects the way children perform, even the way they feel about themselves.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, Amy Chua, 2011
Cultural expectations shape how parents praise children, influencing their self‑belief and achievement.
In simple terms: Praise style affects kids' confidence and success.
Key Takeaway
Adjust praise to foster effort and resilience.
Themes
culture
parenting
self‑esteem
achievement
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
Type
parenting
psychological
When to use this quote
- education
- family dynamics
- career counseling
Key Concepts
growth mindset
social comparison
Questions to Reflect On
- What praise style best supports your child's growth?
- How does cultural background affect your view of success?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on talent can diminish effort.
