Action Quote by Alphonsus Liguori
“If, on a rare occasion, it is necessary to speak with some severity in order to make a grievous crime felt, we should always, at the conclusion of the rebuke, add some kind words. We must heal wounds, as the Samaritan did, with wine and oil. But as oil floats above all other liquors, so meekness should predominate in all our actions.”
About This Quote
Source Treatise: Moral Theology, 18th century
After a harsh rebuke, one should soften the blow with kindness, promoting healing and humility.
In simple terms: Combine firm correction with gentle compassion.
Key Takeaway
Balance firmness with compassion.
Themes
ethics
compassion
humility
communication
Mood
thoughtful
balanced
considerate
Type
advice
philosophical
ethical
When to use this quote
- disciplining a child
- giving performance feedback
- mediating a dispute
- delivering tough news
- teaching a lesson
Key Concepts
moral philosophy
conflict resolution
leadership
empathy
restorative practice
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you ensure criticism remains effective?
- When is it appropriate to prioritize kindness over truth?
A Different Perspective
Too much softness may reduce the impact of necessary discipline.
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