Able Quote by Alix Kates Shulman
“Ever since Freud, being alone has been considered something of a psychological failure. The point, according to Freudian theory, is to be able to love and connect. But I don't believe that at all. I think that being alone and being coupled and being in a group are all natural states in which people can thrive.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Lonely Self, Alix Kates Shulman, 1990
Freud’s view frames solitude as a failure, but the author argues that solitude, partnership, and community are equally natural and can be fulfilling.
In simple terms: Solitude isn’t a flaw; it’s one of many healthy states.
Key Takeaway
Accept all relational states as valid.
Themes
psychology
individuality
relationships
Mood
contemplative
balanced
Type
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- personal reflection
- therapy sessions
- group projects
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
Freudian theory
human needs
social ecology
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you value solitude as much as companionship?
- How can you nurture both alone time and social bonds?
A Different Perspective
Human beings need connection, but solitude can also foster growth.
