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Criticism Quote by Alice Duer Miller

“If it's painful for you to criticize your friends, you're safe in doing it; if you take the slightest pleasure in it, that's the time to hold your tongue.” quote by Alice Duer Miller
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““If it's painful for you to criticize your friends, you're safe in doing it; if you take the slightest pleasure in it, that's the time to hold your tongue.””

Alice Duer Miller

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Power of Speech, 1932

Criticizing friends for enjoyment reveals a moral flaw; restraint shows character.

In simple terms: Avoid harming friends for pleasure.

Key Takeaway

Speak kindly, restrain harmful criticism.

Themes

ethics friendship communication

Mood

thoughtful cautious

Type

advice ethical

When to use this quote

  • social gatherings
  • online comments
  • workplace feedback

Key Concepts

moral psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is constructive criticism appropriate?
  • How can you express concern without causing pain?
A Different Perspective

Sometimes honest critique is necessary for growth.

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