Be grateful Quote by Alfred Bester
“Be grateful that you only see the outward man. Be grateful that you never see the passions, the hatreds, the jealousies, the malice, the sicknesses... Be grateful you rarely see the frightening truth in people.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Stars My Destination, 1956
He urges gratitude for only seeing external appearances, not inner flaws and darker truths.
In simple terms: Appreciate surface, not hidden negativity.
Key Takeaway
Focus on external actions, not inner darkness.
Themes
gratitude
perception
human nature
self‑awareness
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- leadership
- conflict resolution
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
psychology
philosophy
Questions to Reflect On
- How do we balance gratitude with honest appraisal?
- What are the risks of overlooking inner motives?
A Different Perspective
Ignoring inner flaws can lead to naive judgments.
