Bases Quote by Alfred Adler
“We are not determined by our experiences, but are self-determined by the meaning we give to them; and when we take particular experiences as the basis for our future life, we are almost certain to be misguided to some degree. Meanings are not determined by situations. We determine ourselves by the meanings we ascribe to situations.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Understanding Human Nature, Alfred Adler, 1927
Self‑identity is shaped by the meanings we assign to experiences, not the experiences themselves; relying on them can mislead.
In simple terms: We define ourselves by meaning, not events.
Key Takeaway
Choose empowering meanings.
Themes
identity
meaning
self‑determination
psychology
Mood
reflective
inspirational
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- career planning
- relationship counseling
- education
- therapy
- goal setting
Key Concepts
existentialism
cognitive appraisal
personal growth
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you assign meaning to setbacks?
- What alternative meanings could empower you?
A Different Perspective
Meanings can be influenced by external pressures, limiting true self‑determination.
