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Best friend Quote by Alexander Chee

“You ought to know, you were my best friend. You were. I know you loved me. I loved you. No one should have gone through what we went through, but we did. And it kills me to think of it. But I didn't love you like you loved me. I don't hate you for that. It just makes me sorry, that there isn't…” quote by Alexander Chee
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““You ought to know, you were my best friend. You were. I know you loved me. I loved you. No one should have gone through what we went through, but we did. And it kills me to think of it. But I didn't love you like you loved me. I don't hate you for that. It just makes me sorry, that there isn't someone else who could love you better. I know when you think about how I went, you'll get it. I was always uneasy about being alive. The idea of being dead makes me feel clear. When I think of it. It makes me think peace, peace, peace. It makes me happy. I am looking forward to it, to the absence of everything. And so I want you to be happy for me, that this is better for me. That I found what I needed. I know you won't be. But it's the last thing I want. You happy.””

Alexander Chee

About This Quote

Source Novel: Autobiographical fiction, 2020s

The narrator expresses deep sorrow over a lost love, acknowledges personal struggles with life and death, and wishes peace and happiness for the beloved, while confronting their own desire for oblivion.

In simple terms: A grieving narrator wishes peace for a loved one while confronting death.

Key Takeaway

Seek understanding and compassion in loss.

Themes

grief death love acceptance

Mood

somber reflective

Type

emotional philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal journaling
  • support groups

Key Concepts

existential reflection mental health relationships

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can one find peace without ending life?
  • What support can help someone facing such thoughts?
A Different Perspective

Desire for death may signal untreated depression.

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