Adults Quote by Alain de Botton
“As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Consolations of Philosophy by Alain de Botton, 2000
We often try to cultivate traits we wish our parents had, seeking to avoid their shortcomings.
In simple terms: We copy our parents' flaws to improve ourselves.
Identify and develop the traits you truly value.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting advice
- career development
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What traits do you truly admire versus those you resent?
- How can you honor parents without mimicking their flaws?
Traits may be misidentified, leading to misplaced effort.