Psychology Quotes by Alain de Botton

24 Psychology quotes by Alain de Botton

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Alain de Botton’s 24 reflections on the mind weave philosophy into the fabric of daily experience. He tackles love, anxiety and meaning with a gentle, analytical tone that feels like a quiet chat over coffee.

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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren't there. The answers are there in the morning.

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Our bodies hold our minds hostage to their whims and rhythms.

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“we would not reliably assent to reproduce unless we first had lost our minds.”

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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.

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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.

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We are continuously challenged to discover new works of culture—and, in the process, we don’t allow any one of them to assume…

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Sometimes I say to people, 'Do you think you're easy to live with?' People who are single. And the ones who say,…

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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as…

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“It follows that the balance we approve of in architecture, and which we anoint with the word 'beautiful', alludes to a state…

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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind…

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We depend on our surroundings obliquely to embody the moods and ideas we respect and then to remind us of them. We…

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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown…

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“...a book provides for a distillation of our sporadic mind, a record of its most vital manifestations, a concentration of inspired moments…

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Bad architecture is in the end as much a failure of psychology as of design. It is an example expressed through materials…

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“It seemed impossible, from within love at least, that this could have been anything but fate. It would have taken a steady…

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“It follows that the balance we approve of in architecture, and which we anoint with the word 'beautiful', alludes to a state…

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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.…

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“For the dueller, what other people think of him will be the only factor in settling what he may think of himself.…

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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than a moving plane, ship or train. There…

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“The overreactor is responsible, as the psychological term puts it, for the 'transference' of an emotion from the past on to someone…

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Most of us stand poised at the edge of brilliance, haunted by the knowledge of our proximity, yet still demonstrably on the…

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“Christianity had, in Nietzsche’s account, emerged from the minds of timid slaves in the Roman Empire who had lacked the stomach to…

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“Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than a moving plane, ship or train. There…

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“If there are so many references in the Mass to poverty, sadness, failure and loss, it is because the Church views the…

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“To be mature is, we're told, to move beyond possessiveness. Jealousy is for babies. The mature person knows that no one owns anyone.”

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“He feared that by leaving her he would ruin her life - so he stayed, and did just that.”

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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you're annoyed with them.

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“The Anxiety of Sunday afternoon: your unlived lives and infinite possibility pressing upon the constraints of reality.”

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Those who divorce aren't necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.

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“We could not be fulfilled if we weren't inauthentic some of the time—inauthentic, that is, in relation to such things as our passing desires…

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“Insofar as we appreciate order, it is when we perceive it as being accompanied by complexity, when we feel that a variety of elements…

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I like the values associated with a medical family - common sense, being practical but also thoughtful.

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“Anyone who urgently needs us deserves, in the true book of love, to be our friend.”

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“We can then recognize that we invented religions to serve two central needs which continue to this day and which secular society has not…

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“Half the ingratitude and complacency in the world down to how slowly and imperceptibly most good and bad things unfold.”

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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.

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“Does what is praised becomes better? Does an emerald become worse if it isn't praised? And what a gold, ivory, a flower or a…

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The bourgeois thinkers of the eighteenth century thus turned Aristotle's formula on its head: satisfactions which the Greek philosopher had identified with leisure were…

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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.

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