Attention Quote by Adrienne Rich
“Much male fear of feminism is the fear that, in becoming whole human beings, women will cease to mother men, to provide the breast, the lullaby, the continuous attention associated by the infant with the mother. Much male fear of feminism is infantilism–the longing to remain the mother’s son, to possess a woman who exists purely for him.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “Compulsory Mothering,” 1976
Men fear feminism because it threatens traditional maternal roles and their dependence on women.
In simple terms: Male anxiety stems from losing traditional mother‑child dynamics.
Recognize and challenge gendered expectations.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- gender studies
- activism
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does redefining motherhood benefit everyone?
- What steps can men take to support gender equality?
Some view feminism as a threat rather than liberation.