“The assumption lurking beneath a desire for hierarchy is that we can't really trust our partners to act well without a set of rules. That without a formal ranking to remind our partners that we come first, we will lose… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time. maya angelou” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“when you seek to reduce risk by imposing constraints on other people's behavior, you transfer that risk onto others. By doing this you say,… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Having a brilliant life means going outside your comfort zone. And sometimes discomfort shows us ways we can improve.” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Change is the one eternal of life. What I have now I will cherish, and what we build tomorrow I will cherish, without fear.” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Your partner is a person, and people can't be stolen. If some new shiny tries to "steal" him, he has to consent to being… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“You'll need courage because polyamorous relationships can be scary. Loving other people without a script is scary. Allowing the people you love to make… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“What do I need from my relationships? How often do I re-evaluate my needs?” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Expectations are often invisible unless we specifically look for them.” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“In what ways am I empowered in my relationships? What things help me to feel empowered?” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Adopt a fluid idea about the way your life will look, keep in touch with your changing needs and those of your partners, talk… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Polyamory can feel threatening because it upsets our fairy-tale assumption that the right partner will keep us safe from change. Polyamory introduces the prospect… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
