“Some poly lesbians find it especially difficult to come out in their communities, because lesbian couples have fought so hard to gain social recognition that they are wary of anything that seems to risk undermining that recognition. The small size… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time. maya angelou” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“when you seek to reduce risk by imposing constraints on other people's behavior, you transfer that risk onto others. By doing this you say, "I want to explore polyamory but I don't want to take this risk, so I will transfer it onto any new partners, by asking them to be open and vulnerable while also limiting how much they… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share
“Having a brilliant life means going outside your comfort zone. And sometimes discomfort shows us ways we can improve.” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Change is the one eternal of life. What I have now I will cherish, and what we build tomorrow I will cherish, without fear.” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Your partner is a person, and people can't be stolen. If some new shiny tries to "steal" him, he has to consent to being… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“You'll need courage because polyamorous relationships can be scary. Loving other people without a script is scary. Allowing the people you love to make… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“What do I need from my relationships? How often do I re-evaluate my needs?” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Expectations are often invisible unless we specifically look for them.” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“In what ways am I empowered in my relationships? What things help me to feel empowered?” — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Adopt a fluid idea about the way your life will look, keep in touch with your changing needs and those of your partners, talk… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share Image
“Polyamory can feel threatening because it upsets our fairy-tale assumption that the right partner will keep us safe from change. Polyamory introduces the prospect of chaos and uncertainty into what's supposed to be a straightforward progression to bliss. But a healthy relationship must first of all be resilient, able to respond to the changes and complexity life brings. Nor is… — Franklin Veaux Copy Share
