“During school age, the bright, shame-based child will attempt to develop inhuman ego defenses or defending scripts, such as perfectionism, blaming, criticizing, righteousness or being judgmental. The character-disordered try to be more than human. Since being grounded in healthy shame… — John Bradshaw Copy Share Image
I think Nelly [Ternan] actually has something very conservative about her, and she's very judgmental of (this other character's) situation, and can see that's about to happen to herself. So she judges it even more harshly [because] it's what she… — Felicity Jones Copy Share Image
![“I think Nelly [Ternan] actually has something very conservative about her, and she's very judgmental of (this other character's) situation, and can see that's about to happen to herself. So she judges it even more harshly [because] it's what she fears becoming.” quote by Felicity Jones](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/769/felicity-jones-2070_becoming_i-think-nelly-ternan-actually-has-someth_1841147.jpg)