“A real relationship doesn't properly begin until the NRE burns away. That's when you have to start dealing with this person as an all-around human being, replete with irritating little habits. When disillusion sets in, love can begin.” — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Polyamorous people are wary of having others' values inflicted upon themselves, and so tend to stay very far away from making such pronouncements, to the point that they will actively ignore predatory behavior that is affecting their own "community.” — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“So, a little advice. Relax. You're not filling a job position. You're looking for a pleasant acquaintance.. who might become a good friend... who… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Relationships tend to be flawed because they are made up of inherently flawed components, mere human beings.” — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“It's a false premise to say that most monogamous people have chosen monogamy. Most people belong to the religion they were raised in...because that's… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“(In reference to swingers) In the meantime, if you wish to declare yourself polyamorous, get used to the fact that the confusion is gong… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“When you begin with the premise "I treat everyone equally," you have already blinkered yourself from seeing where you don't, or can't, or shouldn't.… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“A real relationship doesn't properly begin until the NRE burns away. That's when you have to start dealing with this person as an all-around… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“When jealousy rears up, it indicates that something inside of you is afraid. It's an alarm, nothing less and nothing more. Treat it as… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Polyamorous people are wary of having others' values inflicted upon themselves, and so tend to stay very far away from making such pronouncements, to… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Polyamory is differentiable from some other forms of nonmonogamy (including adultery) in that it is future-oriented. Poly relationships are not located solely in the… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“In a sane world, a term like "chronic crisis" would be instantly seen by anone as an oxymoron. Nevertheless, that's the state that many… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“In a culture of diversity, one group is likely not "just like everyone else." To deny that we have different needs, concerns, thought processes,… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Security comes first from inside of you. Then, if you are very lucky, you will be in a position to find other people who… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
