“...we are taught to put fun and serious pursuits on a continuum as opposed extremes, when this dichotomy is entirely false, made even worse when we act as though we can instantly exchange one for the other...Exerting yourself at a… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“So, a little advice. Relax. You're not filling a job position. You're looking for a pleasant acquaintance.. who might become a good friend... who… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Relationships tend to be flawed because they are made up of inherently flawed components, mere human beings.” — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“It's a false premise to say that most monogamous people have chosen monogamy. Most people belong to the religion they were raised in...because that's… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“(In reference to swingers) In the meantime, if you wish to declare yourself polyamorous, get used to the fact that the confusion is gong… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“When you begin with the premise "I treat everyone equally," you have already blinkered yourself from seeing where you don't, or can't, or shouldn't.… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“A real relationship doesn't properly begin until the NRE burns away. That's when you have to start dealing with this person as an all-around… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“When jealousy rears up, it indicates that something inside of you is afraid. It's an alarm, nothing less and nothing more. Treat it as… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Polyamorous people are wary of having others' values inflicted upon themselves, and so tend to stay very far away from making such pronouncements, to… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Polyamory is differentiable from some other forms of nonmonogamy (including adultery) in that it is future-oriented. Poly relationships are not located solely in the… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“In a sane world, a term like "chronic crisis" would be instantly seen by anone as an oxymoron. Nevertheless, that's the state that many… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“In a culture of diversity, one group is likely not "just like everyone else." To deny that we have different needs, concerns, thought processes,… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
“Security comes first from inside of you. Then, if you are very lucky, you will be in a position to find other people who… — Anthony D. Ravenscroft Copy Share Image
