Bad heart Quote by Abigail Adams
““You tell me that you sometimes view the dark side of your Diana, and there no doubt you discover many Spots which I rather wish were erased, than conceal'd from you. Do not judge by this, that your opinion is an indifferent thing to me, (were it so, I should look forward with a heavey Heart,) but it is far otherways, for I had rather stand fair there, and be thought well of by Lysander than by the greater part of the World besides. I would fain hope that those faults which you discover, proceed more, from a wrong Head, than a bad Heart. E'er long May I be connected with a Friend from whose Example I may form a more faultless conduct, and whose benevolent mind will lead him to pardon, what he cannot amend.””
About This Quote
Source Letter: Private correspondence, 1770s
The writer seeks a friend whose example can guide them toward better conduct, emphasizing moral improvement over judgment.
In simple terms: They want a role model to improve themselves.
Seek mentors for moral growth.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- ethical decisions
- self-reflection
- leadership development
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Who can you look to for moral guidance?
- How does humility affect personal growth?
Finding such a friend may be difficult.