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Bad heart Quote by Abigail Adams

“You tell me that you sometimes view the dark side of your Diana, and there no doubt you discover many Spots which I rather wish were erased, than conceal'd from you. Do not judge by this, that your opinion is an indifferent thing to me, (were it so, I should look forward with a heavey Heart,) but…” quote by Abigail Adams
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““You tell me that you sometimes view the dark side of your Diana, and there no doubt you discover many Spots which I rather wish were erased, than conceal'd from you. Do not judge by this, that your opinion is an indifferent thing to me, (were it so, I should look forward with a heavey Heart,) but it is far otherways, for I had rather stand fair there, and be thought well of by Lysander than by the greater part of the World besides. I would fain hope that those faults which you discover, proceed more, from a wrong Head, than a bad Heart. E'er long May I be connected with a Friend from whose Example I may form a more faultless conduct, and whose benevolent mind will lead him to pardon, what he cannot amend.””

Abigail Adams

About This Quote

Source Letter: Private correspondence, 1770s

The writer seeks a friend whose example can guide them toward better conduct, emphasizing moral improvement over judgment.

In simple terms: They want a role model to improve themselves.

Key Takeaway

Seek mentors for moral growth.

Themes

friendship morality self-improvement

Mood

reflective inspirational

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • ethical decisions
  • self-reflection
  • leadership development

Key Concepts

role model humility

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who can you look to for moral guidance?
  • How does humility affect personal growth?
A Different Perspective

Finding such a friend may be difficult.

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