How I feel about and behave toward myself is the basic…
“How I feel about and behave toward myself is the basic determinant of most of my behavior. If I improve my self-regard, I will find that dozens of behaviors change automatically. If, for example, I increase my feelings of self-competence, I will probably be less defensive, less angered by criticism, less devastated if I do not get a raise, less anxious when I come to work, better able to make decisions, and more able to appreciate and praise other people.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Self‑esteem drives behavior; improving self‑respect triggers widespread positive change.
In simple terms: Self‑respect shapes many actions.
Key Takeaway
Boost self‑esteem for broader impact.
Themes
self‑esteem
behavior
personal growth
psychology
Mood
reflective
empowering
Type
self‑help
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy
- coaching
- personal development plans
Key Concepts
self‑efficacy
cognitive restructuring
Questions to Reflect On
- What habits build lasting self‑respect?
- How does self‑competence affect relationships?
A Different Perspective
self‑esteem alone may not fix external obstacles;how to sustain confidence under criticism