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“A thing that had always struck her about the child was that he seemed so collected. She had never seen him cry. And now she realized that his calmness was some instinctive shame of showing his feelings; he hid himself to weep.” quote by W. Somerset Maugham
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““A thing that had always struck her about the child was that he seemed so collected. She had never seen him cry. And now she realized that his calmness was some instinctive shame of showing his feelings; he hid himself to weep.””

W. Somerset Maugham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A child suppresses emotions out of shame, appearing calm but actually hiding pain.

In simple terms: He hides feelings due to shame.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and express true emotions.

Themes

emotional repression shame appearance vs reality childhood psychology

Mood

melancholy reflective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • therapy
  • self‑reflection
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychodynamic social conditioning emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we hide vulnerability?
  • How can we create safe spaces for honest expression?
A Different Perspective

The child’s calm may mask deeper distress, not strength.

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