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I don't want to get landed in an affair which might get…

“I don't want to get landed in an affair which might get beyond my control before I knew where I was. [...] But darling, Virginia is not the sort of person one thinks of in that way. There is something incongruous and almost indecent in the idea. I have gone to bed with her (twice), but that's all…” quote by Vita Sackville-West
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““I don't want to get landed in an affair which might get beyond my control before I knew where I was. [...] But darling, Virginia is not the sort of person one thinks of in that way. There is something incongruous and almost indecent in the idea. I have gone to bed with her (twice), but that's all. Now you know all about it, and I hope I haven't shocked you [...]””

Vita Sackville-West

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A narrator confesses an affair with Virginia, acknowledging its impropriety and limited intimacy, while fearing societal judgment.

In simple terms: He admits a brief, questionable affair.

Key Takeaway

Own up to actions and consider consequences.

Themes

infidelity social norms personal honesty

Mood

conflicted reflective

Type

literary dramatic

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • social expectations
  • confession

Key Concepts

morality guilt public perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • What drives secrecy in relationships?
  • How does reputation affect personal choices?
A Different Perspective

Societal pressure can distort personal truth.

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