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“If you can't say anything nice, at least have the decency to be vague.” quote by Susan Andersen
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“If you can't say anything nice, at least have the decency to be vague.”

Susan Andersen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Encourages polite restraint when lacking positive commentary, opting for vague statements instead of harsh criticism.

In simple terms: Be vague if you can't be kind.

Key Takeaway

Choose vague over hurtful.

Themes

politeness communication social etiquette

Mood

considerly reflective

Type

advice social commentary

When to use this quote

  • workplace meetings
  • online comments
  • family gatherings
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

respect empathy self‑control

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is vague better than honest?
  • How does silence compare to vague remarks?
A Different Perspective

Vagueness may be seen as evasive or insincere.

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