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Altruism is for those who can't endure their desires…

“Altruism is for those who can't endure their desires. There's a world as ambiguous as a moan, a pleasure moan our earnest neighbors might think a crime. It's where we could live. I'll say I love you, Which will lead, of course, to disappointment, but those words unsaid poison every next moment. I…” quote by Stephen Dunn
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“Altruism is for those who can't endure their desires. There's a world as ambiguous as a moan, a pleasure moan our earnest neighbors might think a crime. It's where we could live. I'll say I love you, Which will lead, of course, to disappointment, but those words unsaid poison every next moment. I will try to disappoint you better than anyone else has. --Mon Semblable”

Stephen Dunn

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He critiques altruism as a refuge for those unable to satisfy personal desires, suggesting love can become a source of disappointment and poison.

In simple terms: Altruism may mask unmet desires, leading to disappointment.

Key Takeaway

Balance self‑care with caring for others.

Themes

love disappointment desire

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

poetic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • friendship
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

self‑sacrifice psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you reconcile personal desire with caring for others?
  • When does love become harmful?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on self‑denial can cause resentment.

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