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“We seek our friend not sacredly, but with an adulterate passion which would appropriate him to ourselves.” quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson
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“We seek our friend not sacredly, but with an adulterate passion which would appropriate him to ourselves.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We desire friendship not for its holiness but driven by a selfish desire to possess and control the other.

In simple terms: Friendship is motivated by self‑interest rather than pure reverence.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and temper selfish motives in relationships.

Themes

friendship self‑interest control

Mood

reflective critical

Type

philosophical analytical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • team dynamics
  • leadership
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Nietzschean will psychology of desire

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you seek to own others or to be with them?
  • How does selfishness affect your friendships?
A Different Perspective

Self‑interest can erode trust and genuine connection.

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