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The word resentment means to re-feel...to feel again…

“The word resentment means to re-feel...to feel again. Someone wrongs or wounds you; in resenting it, you re-feel the injury. And you re-hurt yourself. The Hebrew Talmud says that a person who bears a grudge is "Like one who, having cut one hand while handling a knife, avenges himself by stabbing…” quote by Norman Vincent Peale
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“The word resentment means to re-feel...to feel again. Someone wrongs or wounds you; in resenting it, you re-feel the injury. And you re-hurt yourself. The Hebrew Talmud says that a person who bears a grudge is "Like one who, having cut one hand while handling a knife, avenges himself by stabbing the other hand."”

Norman Vincent Peale

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Holding onto resentment re‑experiences pain, causing further self‑harm, as illustrated by a vivid metaphor of self‑injury.

In simple terms: Resentment makes you suffer twice.

Key Takeaway

Let go of grudges.

Themes

resentment self‑harm emotional health forgiveness

Mood

thoughtful calm

Type

psychological advice

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal healing
  • mental health counseling

Key Concepts

Cycle of pain psychological injury mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does forgiveness mean to you?
  • How can you prevent re‑feeling old wounds?
A Different Perspective

Resentment may be a coping mechanism that feels justified.

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