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So I was going to let it go. And then he said something…

“So I was going to let it go. And then he said something about sickness being 80% mental. And then the poor victim of his babbling said, “Really?” And I couldn’t help myself. “No,” I interjected, “not really.” Because at a certain point my brain ignores the social instinct and says that when people…” quote by Noah Lugeons
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““So I was going to let it go.  And then he said something about sickness being 80% mental.  And then the poor victim of his babbling said, “Really?”  And I couldn’t help myself. “No,” I interjected, “not really.”  Because at a certain point my brain ignores the social instinct and says that when people are spreading demonstrably false medical information correcting that is more important than being polite.  So I was an asshole.  And I was just enough of an asshole to make my point without permanently alienating our friendship, because, like I said, I’m good at the asshole thing.””

Noah Lugeons

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker argues that correcting false medical claims outweighs social politeness, even if it risks being perceived as rude.

In simple terms: Correcting false health info is more important than being polite.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize truth over comfort.

Themes

ethics communication health misinformation social dynamics

Mood

reflective critical

Type

ethical dialogue

When to use this quote

  • online debates
  • friendship conversations
  • public health discussions

Key Concepts

cognitive bias social instinct truth vs politeness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you decide when to correct someone?
  • When does politeness become harmful?
A Different Perspective

Balancing truth with relationship preservation can be tricky.

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