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“Some ... have imagined that by arousing a baseless suspicion in the mind of the beloved we can revive a waning devotion. But this experiment is very dangerous. Those who recommend it are confident that so long as resentment is groundless one need only suffer it in silence and all will soon be…” quote by Murasaki Shikibu
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“Some ... have imagined that by arousing a baseless suspicion in the mind of the beloved we can revive a waning devotion. But this experiment is very dangerous. Those who recommend it are confident that so long as resentment is groundless one need only suffer it in silence and all will soon be well. I have observed however that this is by no means the case.”

Murasaki Shikibu

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Manipulating a lover’s suspicion to revive devotion is dangerous and often ineffective.

In simple terms: Sowing doubt to spark love fails.

Key Takeaway

Seek honest communication rather than deceit.

Themes

love trust manipulation

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

literary relationship

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • marriage counseling
  • friendship conflicts

Key Concepts

relationship dynamics emotional honesty psychology of attachment

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is confronting a partner’s doubts productive?
  • What healthier ways rebuild waning affection?
A Different Perspective

May ignore cultural context of courtship.

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