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My love grows wide and shallow in an effort to spread my…

“My love grows wide and shallow in an effort to spread my losses.” quote by Mason Cooley — Download Open image

“My love grows wide and shallow in an effort to spread my losses.”

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love can become superficial, spreading thinly to avoid deep loss or commitment.

In simple terms: Love can be shallow.

Key Takeaway

Guard against superficial affection.

Themes

love loss self‑protection

Mood

thoughtful cautionary

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

dating
friendship
breakups
self‑care

Key Concepts

emotional avoidance relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

What are you losing by staying shallow?
Can vulnerability lead to deeper love?

A Different Perspective

Superficial love may protect but also prevents genuine intimacy.

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