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People say that you always have to tell the truth. But…

“People say that you always have to tell the truth. But they do not mean this because you are not allowed to tell old people that they are old and you are not allowed to tell people if they smell funny or if a grown-up has made a fart. And you are not allowed to say, 'I don't like you,' unless that…” quote by Mark Haddon
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“People say that you always have to tell the truth. But they do not mean this because you are not allowed to tell old people that they are old and you are not allowed to tell people if they smell funny or if a grown-up has made a fart. And you are not allowed to say, 'I don't like you,' unless that person has been horrible to you.”

Mark Haddon

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Truth‑telling is socially nuanced; honesty must be tempered by kindness, context, and respect for others' feelings.

In simple terms: Being honest requires sensitivity and discretion.

Key Takeaway

Speak truth with empathy.

Themes

honesty social etiquette empathy

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • work feedback
  • friendship conflicts
  • parent‑child talks

Key Concepts

ethical communication social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is it better to with kind truth?
  • How do you balance honesty with kindness?
A Different Perspective

Sometimes blunt truth can cause unnecessary hurt.

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