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“Remember, that when I speak of pleasures I always mean the elegant pleasures of a rational being, and not the brutal ones of a swine. I mean la bonne chère, short of gluttony; wine, infinitely short of drunkenness; play, without the least gaming; and gallantry, without debauchery.” quote by Lord Chesterfield
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“Remember, that when I speak of pleasures I always mean the elegant pleasures of a rational being, and not the brutal ones of a swine. I mean la bonne chère, short of gluttony; wine, infinitely short of drunkenness; play, without the least gaming; and gallantry, without debauchery.”

Lord Chesterfield

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

True pleasure comes from refined, moderate enjoyment, not from base, excessive indulgence.

In simple terms: Refined pleasures over vulgar excess.

Key Takeaway

Seek balanced, cultured experiences.

Themes

pleasure refinement moderation culture ethics

Mood

thoughtful refined

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • Dining etiquette
  • wine tasting
  • art appreciation
  • leisure planning

Key Concepts

Epicureanism ethical aesthetics self‑control

Questions to Reflect On

  • What pleasures do you consider refined?
  • How do you avoid excess in enjoyment?
A Different Perspective

Excess can still masquerade as refinement if not self‑checked.

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